Lights of Hope

There’s been so much discussion of "hope" along the campaign trail. But this Sunday I witnessed the true power of hope. And it didn’t come from anything the candidates said. It came from the people of Cheshire, Connecticut.
LUMINARIES
I didn’t know what to expect when I arrived in Cheshire on Sunday. I knew that residents Don and Jenifer Walsh had organized a luminary event—Cheshire Lights of Hope—to honor the memory of Jennifer, Hayley, and Michaela Petit—who were the victims of a horrible home invasion last summer. The only survivor was husband, father, and beloved physician, Dr. William Petit, Jr. The event was also to raise funds for MS—a disease Jenifer Walsh suffers from, as did murder victim Jennifer Hawke Petit.

PETIT FAMILY
I met the Walshes that morning at Bozzuto’s Warehouse—a food wholesaler and the town's largest business. Jayne Bozzuto had donated warehouse space for assembling and storing the luminaries, and also provided trucks and drivers to transport the lights throughout the town.

WALSH FAMILY
BOZZUTO TRUCK
The Walshes told me they had been on vacation on Cape Cod this past summer when they saw the cover of People magazine and the picture of the Petits. They knew Jennifer and her daughter Hayley from MS fundraisers. As the Walshes sat on the beach, they knew they had to do something to honor the Petits and to help heal their community. And so they decided to expand the luminary they had started two years ago—a neighborhood project to raise funds and awareness for MS. But they had no idea how the town would respond to such a massive undertaking. Everyone they asked said they wanted to be part of it.

After interviewing the Walshes, I stood in the back of a packed crowd in the warehouse, listening to speeches before it was time to begin distributing the luminaries.

Your heart can’t help but break for all that Dr. Petit has lost. And yet there he was, thanking the crowd for their love and support, and urging them to go forward.

Dr. Petit
And so they did. Individually, each luminary was nothing more than a white paper bag with a scoop of sand and a small white candle. But when 138,000 of them were lit across town, it was as if Cheshire had been transformed.

HEARTS

A huge heart, representing Dr. Petit with another heart inside (symbolizing his wife Jennifer) and two more hearts on either side (for daughters Hayley and Michaela) were constructed and lit on the grounds at Bozzuto’s. The word "HOPE" was spelled out in luminaries on the field at Cheshire Academy where Jennifer was the school nurse.


A town that had lived through its darkest time now was filled with light.

To find out more about the Petit memorial funds, go to National MS Society and Cheshire's Lights of Hope.

Money raised from Sunday’s event will go to the Hayley’s Hope & Michaela’s Miracle, a fund set up to fight multiple sclerosis.

Additional photos courtesy of Ron Kochman.

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14 Comments

Joan K. said:

HI Meredith,
I remember when this happened last summer, such a horrific crime and all I could think of is that I wanted the evil men who did this to be punished but whatever can be done to them isn't enough.
It is nice to see what good came out of it and how everyone came together to remember these 3 beautiful women.
Thank you to the Walsh Family for what they did too.
Love ya Meredith
Joan K.
Wisconsin

Rose_218 said:

That was beautiful.

Renee Byq said:

That's amazing that a town has managed to turn something so horrible into a little good in the world. I definitely agree that this is more hopeful than anything I've heard out of New Hampshire from the candidates. Will Cheshire being doing this annually from now on? I hope so.

Mallory said:

For some take such pain and turn it into hope is amazing. I was blessed to read about a little girl who put her pain in writing and reading it just blows u away. I don't even know her but, the words make you feel something that u have not been through is so hard. My love to anyone who has lost someone at someone elses hand.

Linda said:

Meredith,

Thank you for this! It is incredible, and what a wonderful update on where my thoughts had been left of the tradgedy.

Kudo's to all that helped bring this together, and for you for sharing it here.

Blessings,
Linda

Cait Williams said:

Ms. Viera,

I thank you for doing your segments on illness. My mother has Multiple Sclerosis, as does my grandmother, and I am living with mental illness (severe panic disorder and post traumatic stress disorder). This is a subject that is too often swept under the carpet. I was ostracized from my coworkers and friends when I was diagnosed due to misunderstanding my disease (I was in the Navy at the time; my coworkers were a very large part of my life). My mother has also had a hard time with people being afraid to talk about her health.
I thank your husband for his courage in sharing his story and for helping the other people featured in your story to share theirs.

Sincerely,

Cait Williams

Susan said:

It's wonderful to see The Today Show reminding us to accept people who are different from us (due to illness). Illness isn't the only thing that distinguishes some people from others though. Snubbing for any reason is sad to see. It would be nice to see The Today Show staff applying the same concept of inclusion to their colleagues.

Melissa said:

I live in the town where Dr. Petit grew up, his family still lives and is an active part of our community, and also has his private practice. I know many patients of his who love him as their doctor. I drive through center of town and always see fresh flowers by his Office's sign. This hit many people in this area. All of us here at work discussed this situation and we're hoping our Govenor changes the laws so this doesn't happenn again to innocent family like the Petits.

Cheshire is a quiet and beautiful New England town. They pulled together to help each other make this tragic event to a positive reflection on the Petit family.

Dr. Petit and his family are a true testiment of posisitve influences. All you hear around here is - what a kind hearted person Dr. Petit is.

Thank you for continuing coverage on this.

Melissa
Connecticut

gloria said:

Meredith, I have a question about the food that is cooked, or displayed on the today show set. whathappens to it after the show is finished for the day? Like all those beautiful wedding cakes Martha Stewart had on your show today? At times, there are great mounds of food of all sorts.Just wondering what happens to it all. thanks. gloria

Kathy said:

Hi Meredith,
I was one of the many people there last Sunday and it was truly a magical day. A community pulling together like that should be an example for the entire country. It's unfortunate that we lose sight of what is so important in life, until a tragedy hits home. The goodness and kindness in everyone was definitely apparent that day. Thank you for being a part of this special event. It was an honor to have you there. My best to you and your family. I wish you health and happiness always.
Kathy
Connecticut

Janet said:

Hello, and thank you for doing stories like these. Stories that are about the real America and real families and towns.

Ann said:

Meredith,
Thanks so much for this beautiful segment on the Lights of Hope. The Walsh family with their hopefilled outlook on life is an inspiration to all of us!
Keep these kind of stories coming....it does us all good!

Hope said:

Hello,
I was the volunteer coordinator for this event! I would like to Thank all who helped from the cub scouts filling bags of sand, and volunteers putting all the luminarie kits together, to the actual lighting on the streets. We had over 500 volunteers in one night assembling these kits. Our volunteers ranged from elementary aged children to grandparents. What a sight to see a whole town unite for one event. We could never have pulled this off without each and everyone one of you. That is what this event was all about community. What a pleasure it was to meet and work with all the volunteers. I made so many new friends, and also realized how great my old friends are.
Hope Reinhard
Volunteer Coordinator
Cheshires Lights of Hope

Roxanne said:

About those florescent light bulbs - they contain mercury. Producing and disposing of them adds mercury to our landfills and eventually to our water supply. Here in Oregon we're supposed to take them to the toxic waste disposal site. Seems like a high price to pay for not having to turn off the light when You leave the room. And they don't work with dimmers. The savings comes from the lack of heat that florescents produce. But in the winter, when we use light bulbs most, we need the extra heat. If I don't get it from lightbulbs, I'm using my petroleum based heater to produce it.
We should think this thing all the way through. Florescents are a great invention, but they're not going to save the environment.
Thanks for considering all the angles.

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